Handle Black Tax Like a Pro

Black tax is not so much about money as it is about boundaries. Explicit and unspoken expectations of financial assistance by parents, siblings and other relatives carry a mental and emotional price, affecting our relationships with our loved ones and with money itself. Helping others is commendable, but how do you do it in such a way that you avoid debt and stop the poverty cycle for future generations? After outlining her own experiences with black tax and boundaries, self-leadership coach Ndumi Hadebe presents ten stories based on real situations – from family members’ expectations to fear of jeopardising relationships by saying ‘no’ and being judged for wanting a lifestyle different from those around you. Each story explores different themes and complexities on the black tax spectrum, followed by reflections on how each situation could have been handled in a way that is peaceful and non-threatening to your relationships with loved ones. Handle Black Tax Like a Pro is an engaging and practical guide that will provide you with a roadmap to stronger relationships, better finances and overall well-being.

Ndumi Hadebe grew up in Clermont, Durban. After twelve years in the corporate world, she became an entrepreneur and marketing consultant. Her personal development journey led her to discover her purpose – teaching – which she practises through her business, Kwande Consulting, offering self-leadership and capacity focused coaching to corporate groups. She advocates for boundaries being the basis of self-love, self-preservation and growth, citing boundary practice as a primary foundation for inner and outer success.