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Qualified Disappointment

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      Growing up queer, brown and ambitious in a conservative South African Indian household comes with rules, expectations and a lot of things no one is allowed to say out loud. In Qualified Disappointment, comedian and actor Prev Reddy turns that silence into comedy. From choreographing braai dances to surviving family WhatsApp groups, Prev learned early how to perform, deflect and entertain his way through a world obsessed with appearances and the fear of becoming a disappointment. Prev delivers a moving memoir about tradition, taboo and the pressure to live a life that looks respectable from the outside, charting his journey from a glitter-loving child in Durban to an internationally recognised social media star and stage performer. Hovering over it all is his alter-ego, Aunty Shamilla. She is opinionated and watchful – the familiar voice of community judgement, reluctant affection and unsolicited advice. Deeply honest and unapologetically bold, Qualified Disappointment is for anyone who has felt like an outsider in their own home and fought to stay soft, funny and powerful anyway.

      CONTRIBUTORS: Prev Reddy EAN: 9780639881782 COUNTRY: South Africa PAGES: WEIGHT: HEIGHT: 216 mm
      PUBLISHED BY: Pan Macmillan South Africa DATE PUBLISHED: 2026-07-01 CITY: GENRE: BIOGRAPHY & AUTOBIOGRAPHY / Memoirs, HUMOR / General WIDTH: 138 mm SPINE:

      Book Themes:

      Autobiography: arts and entertainment

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      Kimberly
      Raw, Hilarious, Heartbreaking and Unforgettable!

      A Qualified Disappointment is one of the best South African books I have ever read.

      From the first page to the last, it takes you on an incredible emotional journey full of joy, heartbreak, laughter, hope, and everything in between. Prev writes with remarkable honesty and vulnerability, never shying away from the harsh realities of growing up Indian while navigating identity within the LGBTQIA+ community. His voice is raw, authentic, and deeply human.

      The book feels like an unexpected blend of Spud, a coming-of-age romance, memoir, and sharp social commentary, all wrapped in brilliant wit and laugh-out-loud humour. What makes it truly special, though, is its distinctly South African Indian perspective and a voice that is so rarely represented with this level of authenticity and heart.

      It’s funny, moving, insightful, and beautifully written. More than just a great story, it’s a work of art that stays with you long after you’ve turned the final page. I cannot recommend it highly enough.

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      Sandy Thaver
      An honest, hilarious, and deeply human South African memoir.

      There are some books that entertain you, and others that make you feel seen. Prev Reddy's debut memoir managed to do both.

      As someone who spent much of my own life in the closet, I found Prev's reflections on growing up brown, queer, and South African deeply relatable. His openness in tackling difficult conversations and challenging long held stigmas is incredibly brave, but what makes this memoir so special is that it never loses its sense of humour. Even in its most vulnerable moments.

      It's rare to find a memoir that is both so personal and so universally resonant. I came feeling grateful that stories like this are being told. A must read for anyone looking for an honest, hilarious, and deeply human South African memoir.

      E
      Eathan
      A praise for Prev

      Raw, powerful, moving and a dose of reality. If you loved Aunty Shamila, you HAVE to love this coming of birth story that’s transcended continents,boomers, Gen X, millennials and dare I say the Z’s ( I think that’s as close as A-Z we can get ?)

      PREV REDDY is an award-winning comedian, actor and digital creator based in Johannesburg. He holds a BA in Motion Picture Medium and is known for his viral sketches and stand-up work exploring identity, queerness and cultural contradiction with heart and humour. Qualified Disappointment is his debut book, adapted from his one-man show Prev Reddy is a Triple Threat, which premiered at the Edinburgh Fringe Festival in 2024 and was performed in London in 2025.

      Format: Paperback / softback

      Growing up queer, brown and ambitious in a conservative South African Indian household comes with rules, expectations and a lot of things no one is allowed to say out loud. In Qualified Disappointment, comedian and actor Prev Reddy turns that silence into comedy. From choreographing braai dances to surviving family WhatsApp groups, Prev learned early how to perform, deflect and entertain his way through a world obsessed with appearances and the fear of becoming a disappointment. Prev delivers a moving memoir about tradition, taboo and the pressure to live a life that looks respectable from the outside, charting his journey from a glitter-loving child in Durban to an internationally recognised social media star and stage performer. Hovering over it all is his alter-ego, Aunty Shamilla. She is opinionated and watchful – the familiar voice of community judgement, reluctant affection and unsolicited advice. Deeply honest and unapologetically bold, Qualified Disappointment is for anyone who has felt like an outsider in their own home and fought to stay soft, funny and powerful anyway.

      CONTRIBUTORS: Prev Reddy EAN: 9780639881782 COUNTRY: South Africa PAGES: WEIGHT: HEIGHT: 216 mm
      PUBLISHED BY: Pan Macmillan South Africa DATE PUBLISHED: 2026-07-01 CITY: GENRE: BIOGRAPHY & AUTOBIOGRAPHY / Memoirs, HUMOR / General WIDTH: 138 mm SPINE:

      Book Themes:

      Autobiography: arts and entertainment

      Customer Reviews

      Based on 3 reviews
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      (3)
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      Kimberly
      Raw, Hilarious, Heartbreaking and Unforgettable!

      A Qualified Disappointment is one of the best South African books I have ever read.

      From the first page to the last, it takes you on an incredible emotional journey full of joy, heartbreak, laughter, hope, and everything in between. Prev writes with remarkable honesty and vulnerability, never shying away from the harsh realities of growing up Indian while navigating identity within the LGBTQIA+ community. His voice is raw, authentic, and deeply human.

      The book feels like an unexpected blend of Spud, a coming-of-age romance, memoir, and sharp social commentary, all wrapped in brilliant wit and laugh-out-loud humour. What makes it truly special, though, is its distinctly South African Indian perspective and a voice that is so rarely represented with this level of authenticity and heart.

      It’s funny, moving, insightful, and beautifully written. More than just a great story, it’s a work of art that stays with you long after you’ve turned the final page. I cannot recommend it highly enough.

      S
      Sandy Thaver
      An honest, hilarious, and deeply human South African memoir.

      There are some books that entertain you, and others that make you feel seen. Prev Reddy's debut memoir managed to do both.

      As someone who spent much of my own life in the closet, I found Prev's reflections on growing up brown, queer, and South African deeply relatable. His openness in tackling difficult conversations and challenging long held stigmas is incredibly brave, but what makes this memoir so special is that it never loses its sense of humour. Even in its most vulnerable moments.

      It's rare to find a memoir that is both so personal and so universally resonant. I came feeling grateful that stories like this are being told. A must read for anyone looking for an honest, hilarious, and deeply human South African memoir.

      E
      Eathan
      A praise for Prev

      Raw, powerful, moving and a dose of reality. If you loved Aunty Shamila, you HAVE to love this coming of birth story that’s transcended continents,boomers, Gen X, millennials and dare I say the Z’s ( I think that’s as close as A-Z we can get ?)

      PREV REDDY is an award-winning comedian, actor and digital creator based in Johannesburg. He holds a BA in Motion Picture Medium and is known for his viral sketches and stand-up work exploring identity, queerness and cultural contradiction with heart and humour. Qualified Disappointment is his debut book, adapted from his one-man show Prev Reddy is a Triple Threat, which premiered at the Edinburgh Fringe Festival in 2024 and was performed in London in 2025.

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