Father's Day Bundle - Non-fiction

‘I do not hate boys, I hate men.’ This provocative statement sets the stage for a searing exploration of the complex relationship South African society holds with its black andcoloured men and boys. Dr Mzamo Masito’s urgent new book, This Country Hates Our Men Boys, confronts the pervasive ‘cold and hot love’ that often translates into collective male guilt. When a child goes missing, a collective sigh of relief by men is heard when the blame points to maternal filicide, as headlines like ‘South African woman guilty of kidnapping and trafficking daughter aged 6’ (BBC). The widely accepted phrase amadoda zizinja – men are dogs – is more than a colloquialism; it’s a symptom of a society where positive masculine role models are scarce. This linguistic shortcut flattens the nuanced reality of masculinity into a single, simplistic concept of patriarchy, obscuring the complex, chaotic social issues at play. Through the vital work of African Men Care, a non-profit organisation, Dr Masito unpacks the interlocking crises facing black boys and men: educational disparities, mental health struggles, pervasive violence, and fractured relationships. More crucially, the book illuminates a clear path forward. ‘Every man is every boy’ is not merely an observation but a powerful call to action. The struggles of adult men today are often rooted in the unaddressed needs and unrealised potential of the boys they once were. The lament awekho amadoda (there are no men) serves as a stark warning: without decisive intervention, we risk losing entire generations. This book reveals how individual trauma metastasises into a collective crisis. When boys lack robust interior lives and positive identity models, the repercussions echo through families, schools, and communities. Hurt boys mature into hurting men, perpetuating cycles that impact everyone, including the girls and women in their lives. Dr Masito’s comprehensive framework addresses the full spectrum of development: self, home, school, parents, community, and government. True change transcends superficial interventions, demanding profound work on identity, purpose, and emotional development. This deep work is essential for boys to cultivate the rich interior lives necessary for healthy relationships and constructive community engagement. The ultimate goal is revolutionary in its simplicity: to empower both girls and boys, ensuring no child is left behind. This Country Hates Our Men Boys is essential reading for men, educators, policymakers, community leaders, parents, and anyone committed to breaking cycles of hurt and forging futures where all young people can thrive.

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The LAMY safari ballpoint pen: • Distinctive, self-sprung clip - keeps the writing instrument securely fastened in place. • Housing - impact-resistant, robust ABS plastic • Grip - ergonomic grip designed for effortless writing • Smooth click mechanism – ensures effortless one-handed operation. • Ink - comes with a LAMY M16 black ink refill.

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If a Tote is your bag, then this is the one you need. Made from strong natural 100% cotton with strong double thickness handles and a decent 8cm gusset, it will happily carry all your daily stuff to and from wherever you want! And there's a perfectly shaped pocket on the front to snugly hold your Journal - or anything else booky shaped for that matter! In all the Bookaroo colour combos obviously. Complete the Bookaroo Lookaroo!

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Bright Optics Pty Ltd  Moleskine's Blue Blocking Reading Glasses are a stylish and functional choice for the modern reader. Designed with comfort and eye health in mind, these glasses filter blue light from screens to reduce eye strain, helping you read comfortably for extended periods. With a sleek, minimalist design, they're lightweight and perfect for everyday use. Crafted to enhance visual clarity while maintaining a timeless look, these glasses are an essential accessory for readers and tech users alike. Blue light filter reduces eye strain from prolonged screen exposure Lightweight, comfortable frame ideal for daily use Minimalist design complements any outfit or setting Enhances visual clarity, helping with prolonged reading sessions

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Artisan Notebooks, the new Journals from Flame Tree in a range of hues to suit the mood and the moment. They’re hand crafted with decorated edges overflowing with petals and teasing vines. A unique blend of the practical and beautiful, with two ribbons and lined pages they’re perfect for notes, creative writing, poetry, doodles and lists. And, with robust flexi covers, they’re easy to slip into your bag, a pleasure to use. Simply, they feel good!Flame Tree: The Art of Fine Gifts. Artisan Notebooks, these are for you!

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